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Seven Never To Do Things When You Are Drunk


Drinking Alcoholic Drinks may be fun, but ensure that you don’t have to bear the consequences.

Drunk driving
This one is extremely serious. Not only are you risking your own life, but also that of the others in the car and those who are out on the road or in other vehicles. Make sure that you either take a cab back home or have a sober friend who can take over the task. It’s not macho to drive when you are drunk.

Click pictures and upload them online
You do lose inhibitions when you are drunk, but if your drunken revelry finds its way online, it may cause a lot of trouble. Pictures that are loaded online can never be completely wiped off. You wouldn’t want your boss to see your party pictures, right?

Drunk texting
Whether it’s your friend or someone you are interested in, don’t start a conversation with someone when you are drunk. You never know when your rather ‘high’ spirits may get you into some big trouble.

Get flirtatious with a stranger
Beauty does lie in the eye of the beerholder, but the illusion is bound to wear off once the beer haze passes away. You may end up regretting your actions the morning after your drunken revelry and do what is known as the ‘walk of shame’.

Talk to your ex
Most people get highly emotional after a few drinks and dialling your ex will seem to be the perfect solution. Resist that temptation. It never helps to keep blabbering when you are high. In fact, you may end up quashing all chances of resurrecting your relationship with your drunken talk.

Respond to anything that’s work-related
Well, you really don’t want to mix business with pleasure. Sometimes, it is necessary to use a certain language while writing an official mail and you may just type things that you don’t mean to. Ensure that your drunken state doesn’t affect your career.

Get into a fight
When drunk, you may think that anyone who disagrees with you is committing a crime. But that is not the time to go about serving justice. Make sure that spats stay verbal and don’t reach the physical level. You may not just end up with a black eye, but also a broken bone or two.

March 10, 2014 Posted by | My Intrests, Uncategorized | , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Cartoon of the Day


February 25, 2014 Posted by | Cartoon of the Day | , | Leave a comment

Samsung Galaxy S5 vs. iPhone 5S vs. LG G Pro 2


Samsung new Galaxy S5 has finger print login,heart rate monitor and 16 MP camera with flash.. We compare the new phone with two of its top competitors, LG’s newly announced G Pro 2, and the wildly popular iPhone 5S. Take a look at the specs below and decide for yourself which phone fits your needs.

February 25, 2014 Posted by | My Gadgets, My Intrests | , , , , , | Leave a comment

Thought of the Day


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3 Simple Rules of Life


June 13, 2012 Posted by | My Attitude | | Comments Off

6 Habits of True Strategic Thinkers


If you find yourself resisting “being strategic,” because it sounds like a fast track to irrelevance, or vaguely like an excuse to slack off, you’re not alone. Every leader’s temptation is to deal with what’s directly in front, because it always seems more urgent and concrete. Unfortunately, if you do that, you put your company at risk. While you concentrate on steering around potholes, you’ll miss windfall opportunities, not to mention any signals that the road you’re on is leading off a cliff.

This is a tough job, make no mistake. “We need strategic leaders!” is a pretty constant refrain at every company, large and small. One reason the job is so tough: no one really understands what it entails.

It’s hard to be a strategic leader if you don’t know what strategic leaders are supposed to do.

Adaptive strategic leaders — the kind who thrive in today’s uncertain environment – do six things well:

Anticipate 

Most of the focus at most companies is on what’s directly ahead. The leaders lack “peripheral vision.” This can leave your company vulnerable to rivals who detect and act on ambiguous signals. To anticipate well, you must:

  • Look for game-changing information at the periphery of your industry
  • Search beyond the current boundaries of your business
  • Build wide external networks to help you scan the horizon better

Think Critically

“Conventional wisdom” opens you to fewer raised eyebrows and second guessing. But if you swallow every management fad, herdlike belief, and safe opinion at face value, your company loses all competitive advantage. Critical thinkers question everything. To master this skill you must force yourself to:

  • Reframe problems to get to the bottom of things, in terms of root causes
  • Challenge current beliefs and mindsets, including your own
  • Uncover hypocrisy, manipulation, and bias in organizational decisions

Interpret 

Ambiguity is unsettling. Faced with it, the temptation is to reach for a fast (and potentially wrongheaded) solution.  A good strategic leader holds steady, synthesizing information from many sources before developing a viewpoint. To get good at this, you have to:

  • Seek patterns in multiple sources of data
  • Encourage others to do the same
  • Question prevailing assumptions and test multiple hypotheses simultaneously

Decide

Many leaders fall prey to “analysis paralysis.” You have to develop processes and enforce them, so that you arrive at a “good enough” position. To do that well, you have to:

  • Carefully frame the decision to get to the crux of the matter
  • Balance speed, rigor, quality and agility. Leave perfection to higher powers
  • Take a stand even with incomplete information and amid diverse views

 Align

Total consensus is rare. A strategic leader must foster open dialogue, build trust and engage key stakeholders, especially when views diverge.  To pull that off, you need to:

  • Understand what drives other people’s agendas, including what remains hidden
  • Bring tough issues to the surface, even when it’s uncomfortable
  • Assess risk tolerance and follow through to build the necessary support

Learn

As your company grows, honest feedback is harder and harder to come by.  You have to do what you can to keep it coming. This is crucial because success and failure–especially failure–are valuable sources of organizational learning.  Here’s what you need to do:

  • Encourage and exemplify honest, rigorous debriefs to extract lessons
  • Shift course quickly if you realize you’re off track
  • Celebrate both success and (well-intentioned) failures that provide insight

Do you have what it takes?

Obviously, this is a daunting list of tasks, and frankly, no one is born a black belt in all these different skills. But they can be taught and whatever gaps exist in your skill set can be filled in.

March 23, 2012 Posted by | My Intrests | | Comments Off

12 Most Fool Proof Ways to Keep Your Accounts Safe Online


Who knew ten years ago that you would need to remember so many passwords? A PIN for your bank account, personal email password, work computer log in: the list goes on & on. These suggestions will help to keep your online accounts as safe as possible.

1. Do not share your passwords

This is a common sense rule that is broken all the time. Please do not share your passwords with friends or family.

2. Don’t use simple words or phrases

Hackers have software that can generate common words even if you spell them backwards and add a number. Some of the most common passwords according to PC Magazine: password, 123456, qwerty, abc123, letmein, monkey, myspace1, password1, link182, (yourname). I hope your password isn’t in this list.

3. Don’t email your passwords to yourself or others

If hackers get your email, they will have access to all your accounts.

4. Use multiple passwords

Do not use the same password for all your accounts; again common sense. However, it is a common mistake.

5. Don’t log on to sensitive accounts on public WiFi

6. Don’t use personal details in your passwords

Names, birthdays, parts of addresses or pets names can all be easily guessed by someone who knows you.

7. Write your passwords down

But please keep them in a secure place!

8. Change your passwords every 3 months

9. An ideal password should be 14 characters long

To create a strong password, you can also use a random password generator such as PC Tools free Secure Password Generator.

10. Don’t use passwords that are easy to spot while you are typing them

11. Use capital letters, numbers and special characters in your password

12. How safe is your favorite password?

Check the strength of your password on this Microsoft page.

Do you have additional ideas for keeping your accounts safe? Please share!

December 23, 2011 Posted by | My Intrests | , | Comments Off

Truce reached.!!! :D Fun read !


November 17, 2011 Posted by | Cartoon of the Day | | Comments Off

Happy Deepawali 2011 :))


 

Deepavali or Diwali, popularly known as the “festival of lights,” is a festival celebrated between mid-October and mid-November for different reasons. For Hindus, Diwali is one of the most important festivals of the year and is celebrated in families by performing traditional activities together in their homes. However, in recent times it is an occasion that is celebrated by Indians of all religions living in India and abroad. The day also has significance for other religions in India.

Foe more info on Deepavali ->  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diwali

October 26, 2011 Posted by | My Domain, My Family | , , , , | Leave a comment

101 reasons to stay single


1. Everything in your house is yours.

2. You don’t have to hide gifts, receipts, and other purchase records in ridiculous places.

3. If you buy something “yummy”, you don’t have to buy twice as much.

4. The only person you have to dress up for is your Neighbor .

5. Your late nights are all yours.

6. Less stuff to move when you do move

7. One bedroom apartments feel more spacious with only one person

8. You never have to ask for permission to orgasm.

9. Only the doctor can tell you what to eat

10. You decide what to do and when

11. Valentines day costs less

12. No anniversaries to remember

13. No extra birthdays to remember

14. No extra family to shop for during the holidays

15. No irritating in-laws to deal with

16. You can walk around naked whenever you want.

17. Only your sense of decency has any say about where you leave your dirty clothes.

18. You don’t have to share

19. You don’t have to change your life because someone else has jealousy issues.

 20. The only insecurities you have to deal with are your own.

21. Getting that out-of-state job doesn’t hinge on what someone else wants or thinks.

22. The only people complaining about music volume are the neighbors.

23. You can fall asleep anywhere without getting any guff for it in the morning.

24. You don’t have to use the “headache” excuse anymore.

25. You don’t have to worry as much about the “wattt, ur pregnant” factor.

26. The only person who goes through your stuff is you.

27. The only person who sees your inbox is you.

28. More time to spend with friends.

29. You don’t have to live with someone who can’t stand your parents.

30. If you want to go for pizza at 3am, no one stops you or asks you why.

31. You can date more freely.

32. The cute secretary is fair game.

33. The whole wedding mess? Yeah, none of that to deal with.

 34. You don’t have to share your closet with anyone else.

35. You always get to watch what you want.

36. You always get to read what you want.

37. You decide when to crawl into bed.

38. You can throw yourself into bed and snore without dire consequences.

39. No one else’s annoying (or disgusting) habits to deal with at home.

40. The only fetishes you have to deal with are your own.

41. You can talk to yourself without people saying “what?” or worrying about your sanity.

42. There are religious benefits, if you’re into that kind of thing.

43. Single people can still adopt, if you’re into that kind of thing.

44. The only annoying friends you have to deal with are your own.

 45. You don’t ever have to wonder if you really love the person you live with.

46. There’s only one way to do things- your way.

47. You are the master of the thermostat.

48. The only messes you have to clean up are your own.

49. The only disasters you have to fix are your own.

50. If an argument starts, you can walk away… forever.

51. You don’t have to make excuses for yourself.

52. The whole “old maid” thing is so last century.

53. Dinner can be as simple as a frozen burrito.

54. When you eat, you buy and cook for one.

55. No one else is going to eat your leftovers.

56. No one else is going to raid your stash of sweets (you don’t even have to hide it!)

57. You don’t have to share your bed with anyone.

58. You can even eat in bed if you want to.

59. You can decorate the entire house according to your taste.

60. The only person spending your money is you.

61. Three words: Marriage Tax Penalty.

62. The only debts you have to pay off are your own.

63. Kids with single parents can get more financial aid.

64. Bickering couples are at best a relieving reminder and at worst hilarious.

65. Less pressure about body weight.

66. Married people are fatter on average anyway.

 67. Suddenly, it’s okay to look (and flirt).

68. It’s easier to focus on your career and your dreams.

69. You’re the only person who gets to decide if you “need to make more money.”

70. The only mood swings you have to deal with are your own.

71. There are a lot of lonely and violently psychopathic people out there.

72. You don’t have to change your religious beliefs one bit.

73. There are 6.5 Billion other fish in the sea. That’s 6,500 x 1 million. Yeah.

74. Porn is cheaper, easier, and comes in more varieties.

75. The toilet seat only moves when you move it.

76. Cohabitation is legal, fun, and less of a hassle than marriage.

77. You don’t have to deal with someone else’s kids all the time.

78. Divorce is pricey.

79. You don’t have to deal with “compliment fishing.”

80. Fewer minutes spent with a phone attached to your ear.

81. No endless nagging.

82. You never have to answer the phone “right now!”

83. You can drink what you want, where you want, and as much as you want.

84. No doubts or worries about someone sleeping around.

85. Things stay where you put them.

86. You can meditate and have your quiet time when you need it.

87. The only thing whining about not being fed is your cat.

88. You can take out the trash when you feel like it.

89. You can shower or bathe when you want, as often as you want, for as long as you want.

90. You can even leave the door open when you shower.

91. The longer you wait, the better you know yourself, instead of someone else.

92. Children learn how to treat themselves by watching how you treat yourself.

93. A bad relationship is like a lingering knife wound- it continues to ruin your whole day.

94. You can be as eccentric as you want.

95. Your car can be as dirty or unusual or artistic as you want.

96. You decide how long it takes to get ready.

97. Say goodbye to heartache, dumping, and being dumped.

98. You get your weekends for you and your projects.

99. You can be the wild friend with all the really juicy stories.

100. You can still get laid. Maybe even more often. Certainly with more variety.

101. Being single and staying single isn’t selfish. It should be seen as putting your happiness first (Where it should be.)

October 8, 2011 Posted by | My Attitude | , , | Leave a comment

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